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Chapitre A.D. 25 "the Satellite colleague"

writing soundtrack: "Motivation" by Kelly Row., "6 ft, 7ft" instrumental, and "Till the world ends" by Britney


Being back home has been a blessing and crazy journey. Happy God brought me here though it's been challenging but He's using it to grow me so much. Anyway..let me get to the juicy shhh.

The set-up
Just another Monday walking into the workplace and I see three men from another island walking in and hugging all the girls. The girls are being all flirtatious and just frisky as they are used to. I roll my eyes again..bc I'm like where does work appropriateness start? These guys come from these locations and they straight macking on the girls like it's their right. I "shop" through them and I'm like mmm too short, too dreadlocky, too overweight. But then I see this guy who I shall refer to M come in and even the "evil" team leader turns like a little girl and gets a big bear hug from him. He's nice, comes over genuine, and has a boyish thing to him. He's tall which I LOVE...has a cool style, and an alluring bravado. My body was like..*DING* hahahhahahahahah

Meet-Cute
So I come into the office and starts unpacking my things to start my day. He is walking around and talking to our tech guy etc. At some point, the team leader introduces me to him. It's formal and just ... but I was kind of envious of her when she used to call him and others at our sattelite Helpdesk and just yap. And I just wished I could also participate. The team leader tells me who he is and such. And I'm like cool...but he's not checking for me yet. I had just received  a new company laptop and needed it to have it set up so I asked our tech guy and he was like...well it's your "lucky" day- M is the one who programmed the whole thing and is the one who can give you the rights. I smile inside- hihihihi.

He was a bit busy but he was nice enough to tell me that he'd be with me as soon as he's done. I'm just fanning myself because I'm getting hot flashes and I still got 40 years till menopause - LMAO!!!  After he took care of some things, he comes over and starts with the laptop. He didn't have a chair so he was on his knees at my desk and had his full delicious chocolate arm leaning on my lap without any hesitation. I was a bit shifty but he was very cool and collected about it which impressed me because it could've been very awkward. But he was so sure about himself, and leaned in even more at times like all over me.

The Words that stuck
Somehow we started talking DC, hip hop, and the state of music. Well that was the glue that started making thing sticky and hot. I could tell he immediately got even more interested, and couldn't believe his eyes and ears that there was a female version of a person who knew what it was about Hip Hop. He showed me the making of "6ft 7ft" beat which now I do realize is pretty "sick". Aah..then the dawn of the "googly" eyes came and I had to laugh. Our conversation tinged with flirtation started entering that dangerous territory where my other colleagues would notice that chemistry is starting to fire between us. They did notice though and when I stood up to go get something at the shelf and he turned all the way back to watch my rear, another as I call him "jealous" co-worker remarked "M, I thought you only checked for thick girls". He retorted something back which I didn't completely understand and kept the conversation flowing.

By the end of the day, it was on for me. When I was in his way he would gently put his hand in the small of my back and was so careful to say excuse me. Oooee...when an attractive guy gently puts his hand in that place...I don't think they fully comprehend what that does to a woman. His touch was so tender...I could melt.  #movingon

Numbers Galore
Ha..well at the end of the day he could've stayed or took the plane out but he kept saying that if he didn't have anybody to spend time with *cough* around dinner time that he'd take the next trip out. I could feel his gaze and I'm like..#ohwell. Speak ye clearly or I dost not knoweth what you speaketh about. I did the quick ok Byee!!

O help me..
Hahha, well the thing about it is that he's the direct IT'er who is over all our systems so I have to interact with him if something goes awry. So dialing that direct line came way too easy and we struck hour long conversations over something that he fixed in 5 minutes. Oo I was DEF getting the co-worker *side eyes* and *mmmmhmm's*. Then I was called out by that dagnabbin' team leader saying "if you and M don't stop flirting!"- I was like uh uh...I'm not flirting, I'm just doing some collegiate friendly sparring #thatsall. Like I believed that myself. To which she responded that we should be working and not wasting time. When he heard that first he said to "f*** her". I had to laugh but then I said I denied flirting and he said "um...yes..we are definitely flirting" and I'm like aw dammn. YOU dun ruined my bubble!! hahahahhah

We've had regular contact and most of the time he stays stretching out the conversations and I'm like okeyers... Because sometimes he gets me in a bad mood or real sharp because I'm so busy and he gets all touchy about it. En fin, we have nearly all of each other's contact info and we bbm on the regular. The tension is escalating and he keeps referring to me as a "good one" and that's why he doesn't care if I catch him on his personal phone or work phone. I'm like ok...what's that supposed to mean but don't care to break my head about it. I let him pursue when he's in the mood for it which has been more often. We talk so informal and during the day and late at night. No...there is no webcam and sexy stuff involved. It's still very playful.

The Crescendo (in my head)
Honestly, I want to get this over with. He's a fantastic guy to talk to and his touch is tender. But we have an ocean that divides us..yes....that's a glitch in the fantasy. I don't travel anymore every month to there. And I don't know when my next work trip is. He asked when I was coming over but hey...I'm not spending extra coin on anything that's not concrete or clear. I doesn't bother me that things are taking their time. Whatever, honestly I'm more interested in a nice passionate fling and get it out of my system and move on. Which is why maybe this hasn't been allowed to happen. Saved M another "woman is trifling" story and myself maybe another "D'oh" moment.

But we'll see ....till his next bbm..hahhahaha..

Signing off,

Me..

P.S : the sunglasses have meaning. It's a symbol of him.